In lieu of a real post (because I have the Clomid grumps... and no one would want to read my Clomid-induced PMS/coming closer to a BFN rants) I will instead point you to an amazingly written post:

http://stirrup-queens.blogspot.com/2009/08/i-watched-funny-people-and-what-i.html

Read it... think about it... here are my reflections (which I already posted as a reply on the original.) Hubby was absolutely devastated when he got his S/A results back.... and is still hurting. He wants to read like I do and connect like I do. Sadly extremely few books out there are dedicated solely to MFI... and infertility forums for guys dealing with MFI? Non-existant. This is unacceptable. We need to change society's outlook for the sake of our husbands, brothers, sons and male friends.